“Ukhti, ana tertarik untuk bertaaruf sama anti.” Itulah kalimat yang sering digunakan oleh banyak lelaki.
Banyaknya jaringan sosial di dunia maya seperti facebook, yahoo messenger, dan lain – lain, menjadikan lelaki dan wanita mudah berinteraksi tanpa batas.
Begitu lembut dan halusnya jebakan dunia maya, tanpa disedari mudah menggelincirkan diri manusia ke jurang kebinasaan.
Dalam Kes bertaaruf ini, lelaki dengan sewenang – wenangnya mentafsirkan erti bertaaruf
bertaaruf
Melihat seorang perempuan yang dinilai bagus kualiti agamanya, lelaki tersebut langsung berani mengungkapkan kata ‘taaruf’, tanpa perantara.
Jangan memaknakan perkataan “taaruf” secara sempit, pelajarilah dahulu serangkaian tata cara taaruf atau kaedah-kaedah yang dibenarkan oleh Islam.
Jika memakai kata ta’aruf untuk bebas berinteraksi dengan lawan jenis, Oleh itu apa bezanya yang telah orang yang mendapat hidayah dengan yang masih jahiliyah?
Islam telah memberi konsep yang jelas dalam tatacara ta’aruf.
“Assalamualaikum ukhti,” Sapa sang lelaki
“‘Wa’alikumsalam akhi,” Balas si perempuan
“Subhanallah ukhti, ana kagum dengan keperibadian anti, seperti Sumayyah, seperti Khaulah binti azwar, bla.. bla.. bla.. bla…” puji lelaki tersebut.
Apakah berakhir sampai di sini sahaja?
Oh no…. Rupanya yang ditemui ini juga perempuan gedik, maka berlanjutlah perbualan tersebut, si lelaki bertanya apakah si wanita tersebut sudah mempunyai calon.
lantas si perempuan tadi menjawab. “Alangkah beruntungnya wanita yang mendapatkan lelaki seperti anta kelak.”
Si lelaki itu juga tidak mahu kalah, memuji kembali perempuan tersebut.“Subhanallah, sangat beruntung lelaki yang mendapat bidadari dunia seperti anti.”
BERTAARUF YANG MEMBABI BUTA
Banyaknya jaringan sosial di dunia maya menjadikan lelaki dan wanita mudah berinteraksi tanpa batas. Lelaki dengan takruf membabi buta, perempuan pula terpedaya….
Oh mengerikan, lebai – lebai di dunia maya, syaitan tak mahu mensia-nsiakan kesempatan ini. Lalu tertancaplah rasa, bermekaran di dada dua sejoli tersebut, yang belum ada ikatan pernikahan.
Dengan bangganya lelaki tersebut menaburkan janji-janji manis, akan mengajak wanita tersebut hidup di planet marikh, mengunjungi benua-benua di dunia. Hingga hanyut kedua – duanya dalam janji-janji lebai.
Subhanallah, bukan begitu ta’aruf yang Rasulullah ajarkan.
WAHAI LELAKI, JANGAN PERMAINKAN BERTAARUF.
Muslimah itu mutiara, tidak sembarang orang boleh menyentuhnya, tidak sembarang orang boleh memandangnya.
Jika mempunyai keinginan untuk menikahinya, carilah cara yang baik yang dibenarkan Islam. Carilah informasi tentang perempuan tersebut melalui pihak ketiga yang boleh dipercayai.
Jika maksud ta’aruf kamu untuk melengkapkan separuh agama mu, silakan. Tetapi prosesnya jangan terkeluar dari jalan Islam.
Sedarilah, orang-orang yang kamu kenal di dunia maya tidak semua memberikan informasi yang sebenarnya. Waspadalah..
Berhiaslah dengan akhlak Islam, jangan tergedik – gedik kepada lelaki atau perempuan yang bukan mahram.. Biarkan apa yang ada di dirimu menjadi simpanan manis buat suamimu atau isteri kelak.
Bertaaruf yang sebenar haruslah berdasarkan cara Islam, bukan dengan cara berkasih – kasih sebelum akad nikah.
Health
Insurance
What is 'Health
Insurance'
Health
insurance is a type of insurance coverage that pays for medical and surgical
expenses incurred by the insured. Health insurance can reimburse the insured
for expenses incurred from illness or injury, or pay the care provider
directly. It is often included in employer benefit packages as a means of
enticing quality employees. The cost of health insurance premiums is deductible
to the payer, and benefits received are tax-free.
BREAKING DOWN
'Health Insurance'
Health
insurance can be tricky to navigate. Managed care insurance plans require
policyholders to receive care from a network of designated health care
providers for the highest level of coverage. If patients seek care outside the
network, they must pay a higher percentage of the cost. In some cases, the
insurance company may even refuse payment outright for services obtained out of
network. Many managed care plans require patients to choose a primary care
physician who oversees the patient's care and makes recommendations about
treatment. Insurance companies may also deny coverage for services that were
obtained without preauthorization. In addition, insurers may refuse payment for
name brand drugs if a generic version or comparable medication is available at
a lower cost.
Insurance
plans with higher out-of-pocket costs generally have smaller monthly premiums
than plans with low deductibles. When shopping for plans, individuals must
weigh the benefits of lower monthly costs against the potential risk of large
out-of-pocket expenses in the case of a major illness or accident. Health
insurance has many cousins, such as disability insurance, critical
(catastrophic) illness insurance and long-term care (LTC) insurance.
Affordable
Care Act
In 2010,
President Barack Obama signed the Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act
into law. It prohibits insurance companies from denying coverage to patients
with pre-existing conditions and allows children to remain on their parents'
insurance plan until they reach the age of 26. In participating states, the act
also expanded Medicaid, a government program that provides medical care for
individuals with very low incomes. In addition to these changes, the ACA
established the federal Healthcare Marketplace. The marketplace helps
individuals and businesses shop for quality insurance plans at affordable
rates. Low-income individuals who sign up for insurance through the marketplace
may qualify for subsidies to help bring down costs.
Americans are
required to carry medical insurance that meets federally designated minimum
standards or face a tax penalty. In certain cases, taxpayers may qualify for an
exemption from the penalty if they were unable to obtain insurance due to
financial hardship or other situations. Two public health insurance plans,
Medicare and the Children's Health Insurance Program, target older individuals
and children, respectively. Medicare also serves people with certain
disabilities. The program is available to anyone age 65 or older. The CHIP plan
has income limits and covers babies and children up to the age of 18.
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